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2 Chronicles 8 & 10

The Transforming Power of Love

  • Rich Jones
  • Weekend Messages
  • September 25, 2022

The life lessons from the story have everything to do with love. Or better said, what you love. When you understand its transforming power, it will make you choose well.

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The Transforming Power of Love
2 Chronicles 8 and 10    
September 24-25, 2022

 

          A.W. Tozer, famous pastor and author, wrote a message on the transforming power of love. It has everything to do with the life lessons that come out of the story of King Solomon.

          “We are all in the process of becoming,” Tozer wrote. “We have moved from what we once were — to what we now are — and are moving toward what we shall be. Not only are we in the process of becoming; we are becoming what we love. We are to a large degree the sum of our loves and we will of moral necessity grow into the image of what we love most. Our loves change, mold, and transform us.

          “What we love, therefore, is no small matter. Rather, it is of present, critical, and everlasting importance. It is prophetic of our future. It tells us what we shall become, and so accurately predicts our eternal destiny.

          “Think of the power that turned a pink cheeked little boy into a Nero or a Himmler. Was Jezebel always the accursed woman of evil? No, when she was little, she dreamed with girlish delights. But at some point, she became interested in evil and worldly things, then she admired them, and then went on to love them. Thus Jezebel, like clay in the potter’s hand, was slowly turned into what she became.”

          “Slowly turned into what she became.” That’s an interesting phrase. What you love is of everlasting importance. Love is a transforming power. This truth has everything to do with the life lessons from Solomon’s story.

Solomon was quite young when he became king. He started well. We read that Solomon loved the Lord, though not as much as David his father did. We also read that God appeared to Solomon in a dream and allowed Solomon to ask for whatever he wished.

Solomon asked God to give him an understanding heart. He asked for wisdom to be able to judge the people of Israel, to be able to discern right from wrong; good from evil, because he knew he was insufficient, that he was inadequate for what he was called to do.

God was pleased that Solomon had asked for wisdom and promised to give Solomon what he had not asked for; that Solomon would have riches and honor greater than all the kings in his day.

The riches and honor God gave Solomon, and the greatness of his kingdom became famous throughout the known world. People came from many nations to hear the wisdom of Solomon and were amazed at all he had built. The Queen of Sheba is one of those who came and was amazed at what she saw and heard – chapter 9.

There was so much gold in the kingdom of Solomon that silver was considered commonplace. He had a throne made of ivory, overlaid with gold, with two great lions standing on each side. There were six steps leading up to his throne with a lion on each side of each step, 12 lions in all. He had 500 shields of solid gold hanging in his throne room, the hall of judgment.

One thing God did not promise to give Solomon, however, was many wives; he collected foreign women like some collect foreign cars. That was the compromise that led to the great tragedy that became Solomon’s life. There are many life lessons from the story.

The life lessons from the story have everything to do with love. Or better said, what you love. When you understand its transforming power, it will make you choose well.

I. What You Love is Prophetic

  • Verse 11 – King Solomon brought pharaoh’s daughter up from the city of David to the house which he had built for her; for he said, “My wife shall not dwell in the house of David king of Israel, because the places are holy were the ark of the Lord has entered.
  • In other words, he knew there was something unholy about this alliance with pharaoh’s daughter. He didn’t marry her because of his faith, he married her because it was politically expedient. In other words, “He was looking for love for all the wrong reasons.”
  • We know of course that this was only the beginning. What you love is prophetic of your future.

1 Kings 11:1-2, Now King Solomon loved many foreign women along with the daughter of Pharaoh: Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite women, from the nations concerning which the Lord had said to the sons of Israel, “You shall not associate with them, for they will surely turn your heart away after their gods.” Solomon held fast to these in love.

  • Despite all the wisdom Solomon was given, he didn’t always live by that wisdom. As I mentioned before, having wisdom, and using wisdom may be very different things.
  • What Solomon did not see or understand is that what you love is prophetic of your future. Solomon held fast to these in love.

A. Beware of that which can master you

  • This whole thing began with one seemingly small compromise. Yes, God’s word said not to associate and intermarry with the people of these nations, but it was politically savvy. Surely one compromise wouldn’t matter, he must have thought.
  • Not all compromise is wrong. Compromise can be good when it promotes cooperation or peace — without sacrificing godly principles or truth. In other words, good can always compromise with good and right. But when good compromises with evil, only evil wins.
  • God even gave the reason for His ordinance, “Do not associate and intermarry with the people of these other nations… for they will surely turn your heart away after their gods.”
  • This is about the transforming power of love. “Solomon held fast to these in love.”

1 John 2:15-17, Do not love the world nor the things in the world… For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.

  • Solomon had more than 700 wives and 300 concubines and “his wives turned his heart away.”
  • This happened as Solomon got older. In other words, slowly, one step at a time, he compromised; they kept asking and asking and he began to build altars for the gods of his wives.

Illus – Wouldn’t this be one of the problems with having so many wives? “You built an altar to her god! I want an altar for my god, too!”

Illus – Sin is like having a kitten as a pet, a tiger kitten. It’s so cute and cuddly at first, but then, as it grows up, ever so slowly, bit by bit, it becomes the master.

  • God did not intend for men to be swimming in sexuality. But that was what happened to Solomon. He had 1,000 wives, and then began to build altars to the foreign gods …of sexuality.
  • From the beginning, God’s intent for marriage was good.

Genesis 2:24, For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh.

B. Loving God guards your heart

  • When Solomon dedicated the temple that glorious day, he reminded the people of all the great things God had done for them. He then called them to be wholly devoted.
  • If they would be wholly devoted, if they would love God with all their heart, soul, mind and strength, it would guard their hearts.
  • There was an interesting transition in Solomon’s life…
  • It began with something seemingly small – Solomon’s heart was not wholly devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been.
  • Then it grew into something greater – Solomon did not follow the Lord fully.
  • Finally, it became a great offense – Solomon did what was evil in the sight of the Lord.
  • This is a life lesson. Solomon loved the Lord, but not as much as David. Then, Solomon’s heart was not wholly devoted to the Lord, and then finally, he did what was evil in God’s eyes.
  • In other words, Solomon’s heart didn’t turn all at once, it happened by degrees.

Proverbs 4:23, Above all else, guard your heart with all diligence, for everything you do flows from it.

Illus – No doubt you’ve heard the illustration called ‘how to boil a frog.’ No animal would dive into boiling water. We tried it with a crab once and learned that they don’t like it.

  • The answer is found in God’s Word.

Ephesians 3:19, I pray that you would know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.

  • Love God with all your heart and it will keep you where you are most blessed, because if you love God with all your heart, then you will not love other things.

II. Your Heart Directs Your Steps

  • After Solomon came his son Rehoboam. The men of Israel wanted King Rehoboam to lighten the heavy yoke which Solomon had laid on them, and if he would lighten their load, they would be willing to serve Rehoboam.
  • What follows is a life lesson; your heart directs your steps.

A. Follow Godly wisdom when you hear it

  • If your heart directs your steps, then what you receive into your heart is of greatest importance to the condition of your heart.
  • Rehoboam consulted with the elders who had served his father Solomon. They gave him good and godly counsel that he should grant them their petition and serve them.
  • 10:7 – “If you will be kind to this people and please them and speak good words to them, then they will be your servants forever.”
  • Rehoboam also consulted with the young men who grew up with him and they gave counsel that he should make their yoke even heavier.
  • 10:10 – The young men who grew up with him spoke to him, saying, “Thus you shall say to them, “My little finger is thicker than my father’s loins! Whereas my father loaded you with a heavy yoke, I will add to your yoke; my father disciplined you with whips, but I will discipline you with scorpions.”
  • Rehoboam would not listen to godly counsel. In other words, he heard what he wanted to hear. And that’s a problem for a lot of people.
  • When people only hear what they want to hear, they will miss out on the wisdom of God.
  • Rehoboam saw the power and prestige and the fame of Solomon and wanted it for himself. He even compared himself with King Solomon when he said, “My little finger is thicker than my father’s loins!”

Illus – You can almost hear the elders of Israel react when Rehoboam compared himself to Solomon, “I served with King Solomon, I knew King Solomon, King Solomon was a friend of mine… Rehoboam, you’re no King Solomon.” In case you’re not familiar, look up the 1988 vice-presidential debate between Lloyd Bentson and Dan Quayle.

  • Too many people insist on hearing only what they want to hear. But wise is the one who hears the truth, who hears wisdom… And then takes it into his heart… Because your heart directs your steps.

Colossians 2:2-3, …In Christ Himself in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.

Luke 6:45, “The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth what is evil; for the mouth speaks from that which fills the heart.”

  • This was Solomon’s error. He had the word of God, but he stopped receiving it. He knew the truth, but he wouldn’t listen to the truth.
  • At some point in Solomon’s life, he stopped listening to God’s wisdom. He thought more of his own wisdom. Was he beginning to believe his own press?

2 Chronicles 9:5-7, Then the Queen of Sheba said to Solomon, “It was a true report which I heard in my own land about your words and your wisdom. Nevertheless, I did not believe their reports until I came, and my eyes have seen it. Behold, the half of the greatness of your wisdom is not told. You surpassed the report that I heard. How blessed are your men, how blessed are these your servants who stand before you continually and hear your wisdom.”

  • Those who are wise in their own eyes have fallen into a deep and dangerous trap. Carefully guard your heart to stay in the place of greatest blessing.

Proverbs 3:5, 7, Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding… Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil.

  • Solomon did not guard his heart. He was drawn away because he held fast to the influence of his many foreign wives.

2 Peter 3:17, Be on your guard so that you are not carried away by the error of unprincipled men and fall from your own steadfastness.

B. Out of a good heart – serve and love

  • Consider the wisdom of the counsel Rehoboam received from the elders who had served with his father Solomon.
  • “If you will be a servant to this people today, if you will serve them, grant them their petition, and speak good words to them…”

Matthew 20:25-28, Jesus said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them. It is not this way among you, whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you shall your slaves; just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

  • The heart that loves is the heart that serves.
  • The elders of Solomon were trying to convince Rehoboam that serving the people would be more effective than exerting power and a heavy hand over the people.
  • Isn’t this true with how God relates to us as well?

Romans 2:4, Do you think lightly of the riches of His kindness and tolerance and patience, not knowing that the kindness of God leads you to repentance?

  • When someone comes to faith in Jesus Christ, is it not because they have discovered how much God loves them?
  • Love changes people: and God’s love transforms us most of all. Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and it will determine the course of your life.
  • Love will transform your soul.

The Transforming Power of Love
2 Chronicles 8 and 10    
September 24-25, 2022

I want to begin with a quote from a really famous pastor and author. Many of you I think, have read perhaps a lot of his devotionals and books. AW Tozer really a wonderful, insightful writer. I want to quote this because it has everything to do with the less life lessons out of Solomon's life. Let me just read you this quote. "We are all in the process of becoming," Tozer wrote. "We have moved from what we once were to what we now are and are moving toward what we shall be."

Not only are we in the process of becoming, we are becoming what we love. We are to a large degree, the sum of our loves, and we will of moral necessity grow into the image of what we love most. Our loves change, mold, transform us. What we love, therefore is of no small matter. Rather, it is of critical, present everlasting importance. It is prophetic. This is a very important word. It is prophetic of our future. It tells us what we shall become and it therefore accurately predicts our eternal destiny.

Think of the power that turned a pink-cheeked little boy into a Nero or a Himmler. Was Jezebel always that a cursive woman of evil? No. When she was little, she dreamed of girlish delights but at some point, she became interested in evil and worldly things. Then she admired evil and worldly things and then she went on to love them. Thus Jezebel, like clay in the potter's hand was slowly turned into what she became. What a great quote is that. I love that phrase right there. She was slowly turned into what she became.

That really presents an interesting question. What is it that you want to become? What kind of person do you want to be? What kind of life do you want to live? I don't mean the work or the money or the business. I don't mean those things. I mean, the soul, what kind of character within you? What is it that you want your soul to become because it has everything to do with what you love? Now Solomon was quite young, when he became king as we've been reading he started out well.

We read that Solomon loved the Lord, but not as much as David his father did. We also read that God appeared to Solomon, and allows Solomon to ask for whatever he wished. "What is it that you would have me do for you," God said to Solomon, which is a great question. Solomon asked God to give him an understanding heart. He asked for wisdom to be able to judge the people of Israel. To be able to discern right from wrong, good from evil, because he knew that he was insufficient, that he was inadequate to do what he was called to do.

He asked for wisdom and understanding. God was so pleased that Solomon asked for that rather than riches or wealth or honor along life or anything like this. God was so pleased that he said, "I will give you that for which you have asked, wisdom and understanding will be given to you and I will give you what you did not ask for." "I will give you riches in honor, greater than the kings who came before you, and any who come after." Now the riches and honor that God gave Solomon, and the greatness of His kingdom was famous throughout the known world at the time.

People came from nations and nations to hear and to see of what had happened in Solomon. They were amazed at what he had built. Even the Queen of Sheba, which is in chapter 9, which of course Jesus mentioned as well. She came and was amazed at what you saw. Solomon had so much gold it says that silver was considered commonplace. He had a throne made of ivory overlaid with gold with two great golden lions on either side, great lions on either side of his throne.

If that was not enough, there were six Ivory` steps leading up to his throne with two lions on every step. Can you imagine coming into the throne room which he called the Hall of judgment? There was 500 shields made of solid gold hanging in that great throne room. Now, one thing that God did not promise to give Solomon, however, was many wives. That Solomon did all on his own. He collected foreign women like people collect foreign cars today. That right there was the compromise that led to the great tragedy that became Solomon's life.

It's a tragic story. There are many lessons from his life but the story and the lesson that we want to recognize is that of love. What you love, for when you understand the power of love, the transforming power, it will determine what kind of person you become. You get to decide what is that which you wish your soul to be. Let's read it. We're going to read chapter 8 a little later we'll look at chapter 10 also but I want to begin as it starts out the chapter talking about the power and the greatness but notice to where it flows next.

It came about at the end of 20 years in which Solomon had built the house of the Lord in his own house. Took 20 years to build the temple and he built a glorious house for himself. Then that he built the cities which Huram had given to him and settled the sons of Israel there, then Solomon went through Hamath Zobah, capture that. He built Tadmor in the wilderness and all the storage cities which he built in Hamath. Great storage facilities, cities to hold all of the opulence and wealth of his grandeur.

He built upper Beth Horon and lower Beth Horon, fortified cities with walls, gates bars, Baalath and all the storage cities that Solomon had, and all the cities for his chariots. Cities for his horseman. Entire cities for horsemen. In all it pleased Solomon to build in Jerusalem, Lebanon, and all the land under his rule but then would you go down to verse 11. I want us to focus on verse 11. Solomon then brought Pharaoh's daughter, remember that he had made an alliance with the king of Egypt by marrying Pharaoh's daughter.

I. What You Love is Prophetic

But notice verse 11, Solomon brought Pharaoh's daughter up from the city of David, to the house which he had built for her. For he said, "My wife shall not dwell in the house of David King of Israel, because the places are holy where the ark of the Lord has entered." In other words, he knew that this was an unholy alliance. He knew quite well that this was an unholy alliance and would not have his wife dwell in the city of David, for where the Ark of the Covenant was, was holy, and she is not.

It's a great lesson. We'll start with these verses, starting with this understanding what you love is prophetic. It has a determination of your eternal, but also what your soul becomes now. My wife will not dwell in the house of the City of David, because the places are holy where the ark of the Lord was. He knew very well, this was an unholy alliance. In other words, he did not marry her out of his faith. He didn't marry her out of his relationship to God. He married her out of a politically expedient decision. In other words, he was looking for love for all the wrong reasons.

Now, of course, we know that this was only the beginning because what you love is prophetic. It started here, but it grew, and it grew and it increased and it got worse so much so that 1Kings 11:1-2, now King Solomon loved many foreign women along with the daughter of Pharaoh. Moabite, Ammonite, Edomites, Sydonian, Hittite, and on and on. Women from the nations concerning which the Lord has said to the sons of Israel, "You will not associate with them." They will surely turn your heart away after their gods, then it adds, but Solomon held fast to these in love.

Love is a determining and prophetic power, despite all the wisdom that Solomon had. Now, as I mentioned before, having wisdom and living by wisdom are not the same things, but this is not wise what Solomon did. Because what he did not see, and I've said before that wisdom is the ability to see. It's the ability to see the outcome of the thing that you are doing. It's the ability to see the outcome of the thing of which you are doing. He did not see. He did not understand that what you love is prophetic. It will change who you are.

A. Beware of that which can master you

Solomon held fast to these in love and it mastered him. It got to a point where that was the master. See, in other words, great lesson. Oh great lesson. Be aware of that which can master you. This old thing began with a seemingly small compromise. Oh sure. God's word said not to associate, not to intermarry with these people from these nations, but it was politically savvy. Surely, one compromise wouldn't matter, he must have thought. One compromise. How much can come from one compromise? Well, side note, by the way, not all compromise is wrong. Compromises can be good. That is as long as you don't sacrifice Godly principles or Godly character.

See, in other words, good can always compromise with good, but anytime good compromises with evil, evil only wins. Anybody agree with me? When good compromises with evil, only evil wins. God even gave the reason for this ordinance, not to marry from these nations because they will turn your heart away from your God. That is the danger of the thing. If you turn your heart away, it's going to end poorly. See, this is about the transforming power of love.

What do you love? Solomon held fast to these in love, it says. Now, there is a New Testament verse that says similar things to us today. From notice, what John wrote, this is 1st John 2:15-17. Do not love the world. Well, why? Because love is a transforming power. If you love the world, you will become world-like, you will become worldly. It will impact the heart and your soul. Do not love the things of the world because you will become material of the world things. Because all that's in the world, the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh, and the boastful pride of life, this is not from your Father. This is from the world and

the world is passing away and also is lusts, but the one who does the will of God lives forever.

Oh, what a great word. Solomon, by the time he got to the end of all of this, he had 700 wives, 300 concubines. Surely, as God's word has said, they turned his heart away. Now, this happened as he got older, didn't happen at the beginning. It happened slowly, bit by bit he compromised because these wives started to pressure him. "I want an altar for my God. Look, you got a great temple for Yahweh, the God of Israel. What about my God? You love me. Don't you? If you loved me--"

Oh, here's that. "If you loved me, you would build an altar for my God too." She would pressure him and pressure him and so then Solomon, "Okay, fine." He built an altar for her God. Wouldn't this be one of the problems with having so many wives? "You built an altar for her God, why can't I have an altar for my God? You don't love me. You don't love me as much as her. I want an altar for my God and I want it now." He did. On the Mount of Olives, oh my goodness, what was on the Mount of Olives? In the city of Jerusalem, all about. This thing got out of control. This thing became a problem.

I can't tell you how many people would say, "I can control this thing. I got this thing. I got it. I can control this thing." No, you won't. This thing is going to master you. Here's an illustration. Sin is like having a kitten for a pet, only it's a tiger kitten as a pet. Oh, the thing is so cute at the beginning, so cuddly, so wonderful, so playful. You have so much fun playing with it, but bit by bit, day by day, this thing starts to grow. After a while, fear arises. This thing is turning into a monster. This thing, I can't control it anymore. This thing has mastered the house. This thing has mastered me.

God did not intend-- by the way, God did not intend for men to be swimming in sexuality. That was not the intent, but that's what happened to Solomon. He had 1,000 wives and then when he built these altars, do you know what these altars were about? These altars to these others' gods were about sexuality. God's of fertility. Oftentimes, their idols were graphic. This thing got out of control because you can be assured that God is offended at such things in the holy city in which he had placed his name. This was never God's intent. God designed marriage. Anybody agree with me? That was God's design.

B. Loving God guards your heart

God is the one who created the whole idea. Genesis 2:24. For this reason, a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. The two shall become one. That's God's glorious creation. God knew what He was doing, but He also knew what he was doing when he said, love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, because He knew that love guards the heart. Loving God will guard the heart and keep you from those things which will, in fact, destroy.

When Solomon dedicated the temple, we were looking at that last week. On that glorious day that he dedicated the temple, he reminded the people of all the great things that God has done and then he called them to be wholly devoted to the Lord. This is the high point of Israel. If they would've just been wholly devoted to the Lord, if they would have loved the Lord with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength, it would keep them from troubles. It would guard their hearts. You see an interesting transition in Solomon's life. It began by saying Solomon loved God, but not as much as his father David did.

Then it moves into something greater. Solomon did not follow the Lord fully. Then finally, it became a great offense. Solomon did what was evil in the sight of the Lord, a life lesson. He loved the Lord, but not as much as David, then he wasn't holy devoted, and finally doing that which was evil. It is a progression of things made worse because of the condition of his heart. God wants the opposite to be true. God wants to see an increase in our lives that the day that you receive the Lord, Jesus Christ is the day that you begin a glorious journey of increasing.

Because the day that a person receives Jesus Christ is the day that God has welcomed a sinner to Himself, but God will not leave a sinner in the condition in which He found him or her, but God will do a work of transforming. How does He do that? By his power, by his presence, by the love which fills your heart because love is a transforming power. When you increase in your capacity of loving God, your soul will be transformed by it. The glory of God's presence will transform your life. Oh, may you ever increase.

May you ever increase, so that when you get to the end, you love more at the end that you did in the beginning and then when you breathe your last, you just walk right into the presence of the Lord that you spent your life loving. That's what I want to do with my life. Anybody want to join me? Yes, let's give the Lord praise. It's a glorious understanding. Proverbs 4:23, above all else, guard your heart. With all diligence, guard your heart. Notice, for everything you do flows from it.

Jesus said a very similar word, which we'll see. "Above all else, above all else, guard your heart with all diligence, for everything you do flows from it." Be careful because otherwise, step-by-step, degree-by-degree, it will become such that it will increase and increase and increase until it gets worse and worse and worse. What is the old illustration? I've no doubt used it. How to boil a frog? One little degree at a time. No animal wants to jump in the boiling water. I tried with a crab one time, they don't like it.

What happened was this. We went crabbing, and I used to always have them cook it on the dock, and I thought, "Oh, I'm going to do it myself." I had never done anything like that before. I didn't know what I was doing. I brought these things home, and I made a big pot, and the boiling water, put the salt in there. I thought, "Well, what do you do?" I took the biggest one we had, and I started to put it in the pot, but he grabbed the edges of the pot. I'm like, "No, you get in there." I was like, "No. No, you get in there." We were having this little wrestling match.

Finally, I put it in there, put the lid on, and then I can hear him. I can hear him. I felt so bad. Then, when I took him out of the pot, that's not the way crabs are supposed to look. It came out like this. No, it's not right. I said to a friend, I said, "What did I do wrong?" He said, "No, that's not the way you do it. That's cruel. Crabs don't like it. You turn him upside down, and then you put him in upside down, they die right away. Then when they come out, they look like this." "Oh, I see now."

Back to the regularly scheduled message. Paul wrote this. Would you notice what Paul wrote in Ephesians 3:19? This is a prayer of tremendous importance. "I pray," Paul's prayer, "I pray that you would know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God." See, Paul understood this. Paul understands a great truth. If you could only know, if you could only know how much you are loved in Christ Jesus, if you could only know, it would change who you are. It would change your life. It would change what you want. It would change your future. It would change you because then, you would be filled up. May you be filled up with the fullness of God.

II. Your Heart Directs Your Steps

Love God with all your heart, and it will keep you in the place of greatest blessing because if you love God with all your heart, it will keep you from loving those things which will destroy you. God loves you. He wants your soul to be blessed. Now let's turn to 2 Chronicles 10, where we're going to receive some lessons from Solomon's son Rehoboam that speak right out of this. Actually, we're going to begin in 9:31.

Solomon slept with his fathers and was buried in the city of his father David. His son Rehoboam reigned in his place. Chapter 10. Then Rehoboam went to Shechen, for all Israel came to Shechen to make him king, and it came about when Jeroboam, the son of Nebat heard of this, for he was in Egypt, where he had fled from the presence of King Solomon, that Jeroboam returned from Egypt, so they went and summoned him.

When Jeroboam and all Israel came, they said this to Rehoboam. "Your father made our yoke hard, now therefore lighten the hard service of your father and this heavy yoke, which he put on us, and then we will serve you." He said to them, "Return to me again in three days," so the people departed. Then King Rehoboam consulted with the elders, those elders who had served his father Solomon while he was still alive. He said, "How do you account to me to answer these people?"

They, these elders, who had served with Solomon, they said to him, "If you would be kind to these people, if you would please them, if you would speak a good word to them, then they will be your servants forever," but Rehoboam forsook this counsel of the elders which they had given, and he consulted with the young men who grew up with him and served him. He said to them, "What counsel do you give that we may answer these people who have said thusly, 'Lighten the yoke which your father put on us'"?

The young men who grew up with him spoke thusly saying, "Thus you shall say to the people who said, to you these things. 'Your father made our yoke heavy, but you make it lighter,' you say thus. You say, 'My little finger is thicker than my father's loins. Whereas my father loaded you with the heavy yoke, I'm going to add to your yoke. My father disciplined you with whips? I'm going to discipline you with scorpions.' You say that to them.

Jeroboam and all the people came to Rehoboam on the third day as the king had directed, and the king answered them harshly. He had forsook the counsel of the elders. He spoke to them according to the advice of the young men, saying, "My father made your yoke heavy, I'm going to add to it. My father disciplined you with whips, I'm going to discipline you with scorpions." The king did not listen to the people nor to the elders, notice, for it was a turn of events from God, that the Lord might establish His word, that which He spoke to Jeroboam and to Solomon, for what Solomon did was evil, "The king then will be torn from you, from your son. Although for the sake of your father David, the two tribes will remain with you, Benjamin and Judah." This thing came from the Lord because what Solomon did was a disaster.

Now what Rehoboam is doing is to further the disaster. It comes from this. Your heart directs your steps. What is in the heart? For the heart directs the steps. The counsel of the elders was wise. There's a great lesson. Follow godly wisdom when you hear it, for it will change your heart. Follow godly wisdom when you hear it. If your heart directs your steps, then what you receive into the heart is of greatest importance to the condition of your heart.

A. Follow Godly wisdom when you hear it

He consulted with the elders, they gave him good and godly counsel. "If you would listen to these people, if you would be kind to them, speak good words to them, if you would serve them." Then he consulted with the young men, and they said, "Make it even harsher." He would not listen to godly counsel because he heard what he wanted to hear. Oh, that's a problem for so, so many people. When people hear only what they want to hear, they will miss out on the wisdom that God would speak into their lives.

Rehoboam sought the power, the prestige, the fame, the honor of Solomon his father, and he wanted it. He even compared himself to Solomon. "My little finger is thicker than my father's loins." Now, you know the loins means the leg, the great thigh. It's the strongest and greatest muscles on the human body. "My little finger is greater than my father's loins." He's comparing himself to Solomon. You can just imagine the elders listening to this, "You're comparing yourself to Solomon? I knew Solomon. I worked with Solomon. Solomon was a friend of mine. Rehoboam, you are no Solomon."

Too many people, they insist on hearing what they want to hear, but wise is the one who hears the truth, who hears wisdom and takes that into your heart, for that will direct your steps. The treasures of wisdom and knowledge are found in Him. Colossians 2:2-3, "In Christ Himself, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge." Jesus said this, Luke 6:45, I love quoting this because it's so important to understand, "The good man out of the good treasure of his heart will bring forth what's good." Everything flows, everything in your life flows from the condition of your heart.

Then he adds, "The evil man out of the evil treasure will bring forth what's evil, for the mouth speaks from that which fills the heart. The life is lived from that which fills the heart." What is it you receive into the heart, it will determine the steps you take. This was Solomon's error. He had the word of God, but he didn't receive it. He knew the truth, but he wouldn't listen.

He stopped listening to God's wisdom. Why? Because he thought more of his own wisdom than he did of God's wisdom. At some point, see early on in his life, he's asking for God to give him wisdom. Now he thinks he's all that he's all wise. He's got it all figured out. Was he beginning to believe his own press. Everybody was saying how wise he was, how wonderful he was. Even the queen of Sheba that we read about in 2 Chronicles 9:5-7.

Then the queen of Sheba said to Solomon, it was a true report which I heard in my own land about your words and your wisdom. Nevertheless, I did not believe these reports until I came and my eyes have seen it behold that half of a greatness of your kingdom is not told. You surpassed the report that I heard. How blessed are your men. Notice this,how blessed are your men or how blessed are these servants who stand before you continually and hear your wisdom. Everybody was saying "Oh how wise you are oh great Solomon."

"Your wisdom is amazing." Therefore, nobody was saying anything to him that he would listen to. He would listen to no one, no checks, no balances, no input nothing. He was the great master of wisdom. He's the one who spoke and everyone else listened. There's a lot of people like this. By the way side note, I submit that what's happening in Russia right now with Vladimir Putin is exactly the same problem. There is nobody speaking a word of wisdom into that person. The end result is going to be tragedy for the world. This thing is far from over and there are great tragedies awaiting the world.

Those who are wise in their own eyes have fallen into a deep trap. Those who are wise in their own eyes have become dangerous to themselves. Carefully guard your heart to stay in that place where God's word is the wisdom that you need to build your life. Let me give you a tremendous word. Proverbs 3:5-7 trust in the Lord with all your heart, do not lean on your own understanding. Do not be wise in your own eyes. Fear the Lord and turn away from evil. Consider the depth of these words. Trust in the Lord with all your heart do not lean on your own understanding. Do not be wise in your own eyes. Fear the Lord and turn away from evil question. Who wrote that? Answer, Solomon wrote that. At the end of his life, he turned this thing around.

You read Ecclesiastes you read Songs of Solomon et-cetera, the other-- you see at the end, he saw it. The emptiness of it all, it's all vanity. He called it for what it is. It's all emptiness. It's all vanity. At the end, he turned it around and wrote this. I love that part of the story. His life was a tragedy, but how wonderful to see that he turned it around because it's a good word even for us today. It's not too late to turn this thing around. Please hear this. It's not too late to turn this thing around. If you've been walking on a road and you come to see it now it's been a wrong direction.

You're heading in the wrong way. It's not too late. You can turn this thing around. Many you know father's story, alcohol angry, cantankerous difficult but at 75 years old, he came to faith in Jesus Christ. In this very church he had baptized with my own hands at 75. It's not too late to turn this thing around. God can heal brokenness. God can heal hurt. God can transform a life. Your soul can yet be filled with the glory of God. It's not too late. Be on your guard. 2 Peter 3:17, be on your guard so that you are not carried away by the error of unprincipled men and fall from your own steadfastness.

B. Out of a good heart – serve and love

It's not too late. God can do this thing. God can fill your heart and your soul. What a soul do you want to have? It's not too late. God can build that which is good and glorious. Then I'll tell you out of that good heart, serve, love, bless the people out of the overflow of that good heart, that which God is doing. Bless the people around you. Consider the wisdom of the council that Rehoboam received from these elders who had served with his father. If you would serve these people, if you would speak kindly to them, if you would speak good words to them, it's far greater. Wouldn't it be wonderful to be a blessing to those who are in your life? To pour out upon them out the overflow of your own soul.

Let God do that which is beautiful and glorious in your soul so that out of the overflow of that it blesses the people in your life. Wouldn't it be glorious to bless the people in your life. It's such a right way to live. It's a beautiful way to live. In contrast, Jesus said this Matthew 20:25-28 he said now you know how it is out there. You know how they are out there. You know that the rulers of the Gentiles, they Lord it over them. They're great men exercise authority over them meaning what? They're bossy. That's what, they're bossy, heavy handed, mean spirited. Those who have authority, those who have a voice, they say hard words. Jesus says, "this is not the way among you". Whoever wishes to become great, you wish to become great. Let him be the servant.

Whoever wishes to be first among you let him be the slave, just as a son man did not come to be served, but to serve and to give his life for a ransom for many. I love where David wrote my cup overflows. That's a beautiful picture. My cup overflows. Out of the fullness of your heart, let it overflow as a blessing to the people that are around you. It's a beautiful way to live. It's a very much more effective way to live. If there's brokenness, you cannot bless the people around you.

If you're hurt and wounded, you cannot bless the people around you. What is that old saying? Hurt people, hurt people. Angry people, beget anger. I want to bless the people in your life, out of the overflow of what God is doing in your life. Isn't that the way God feeds us? Romans 2:4, do you think lightly of the richest of his kindness and tolerance and patience, not knowing that it is the kindness of God, that leads you to repentance?

When someone comes to faith in Christ Jesus isn't not because they have discovered how much God loves them? That God would invite a sinner to come and pour out his love. Even by paying the penalty for that sin, and then restoring and rebuilding. Love changes people, God's love, transforms us most of all, Jesus was asked, what is the greatest of all the words that God has ever said? What's the highest? What's the foremost? Jesus answered and said the highest, the greatest, the foremost of all that God has ever said is love. God is love. Love is the greatest thing that God has ever said. Love the Lord your God with all of your heart. That's the greatest word that God has ever spoken.

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength. Then he added this. The second greatest is similar. It's like it, you shall love your neighbor as yourself. Great truth. If you love the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind and strength out of the overflow of that, out of his soul that's filled with God's glory, you can love your neighbor generously. Someone said, "Well, who is my neighbor?" Jesus gave a parable. A man was on a journey on the road to Jericho and Robbers attacked him, beat him severely, left him for dead on the side of the road.

The priest came by that way, saw the man there, lying in his blood, beaten, left for dead and he crossed to the other side. Short time later, a Levi came, saw him also there beaten and bloodied, and bludgeoned. He also went to the other side of the road, would've nothing to do with the man and then came with Samaritan who was on a journey. Samaritans. If you remember were looked down upon by the Jews despised, they had married the Gentiles looked down upon them. A Samaritan came by that way and saw the man there, attended to him, helped him bandaged his wounds, put him on his beast, brought him to the place where he could receive care, paid for it all. If there's any still left owing, I will pay when I return. Jesus said, "Which of these proved to be the neighbor?"

They answered, the one who cared. Then doing, go and do likewise. Out of your heart that is filled, oh, it's a beautiful soul that God wants to give you that you would bless. What kind of soul do you want to have? What kind of soul? What a kind of life do you want to live? I don't mean the stuff with things. What kind of soul? God wants you to have a beautiful soul filled with him. His love, his glory, and it will overflow and it will be not only a tremendous blessing to you, but to everyone around you.

Let's pray. Father, thank you so much for revealing the greatness of who you are and the love that you would pour out upon us and then you say to us, then we can decide and choose what kind of a soul we're going to have. Then you give us, how beautiful it would be if you would have a soul made beautiful by the presence of God, by his love if you would just love the Lord with all your heart, then let the overflow bless those that are in your life around you. Your company would say, "Well, that's what I want." Now. I want a soul like that. I want you in my life. I want to love you like that. I want your presence and your glory to transform me.

I loved you. I know that love is the power that transforms, then change me, transform me. I want to be like you Lord. I want to bless out of the overflow of that. I want the people in my life around me to be blessed. Lord do that in me.

2 Chronicles 8 & 10          NASB 1995

CH. 8

1 Now it came about at the end of the twenty years in which Solomon had built the house of the Lord and his own house that he built the cities which Huram had given to [a]him, and settled the sons of Israel there.

Then Solomon went to Hamath-zobah and captured it. He built Tadmor in the wilderness and all the storage cities which he had built in Hamath. He also built upper Beth-horon and lower Beth-horon, fortified cities with walls, gates and bars; and Baalath and all the storage cities that Solomon had, and all the cities for [b]his chariots and cities for [c]his horsemen, and all that it pleased Solomon to build in Jerusalem, in Lebanon, and in all the land [d]under his rule.

All of the people who were left of the Hittites, the Amorites, the Perizzites, the Hivites and the Jebusites, who were not of Israel, namely, from their descendants who were left after them in the land whom the sons of Israel had not destroyed, them Solomon raised as forced laborers to this day. But Solomon did not make slaves for his work from the sons of Israel; they were men of war, his chief captains and commanders of his chariots and his horsemen. 10 These were the chief [e]officers of King Solomon, two hundred and fifty who ruled over the people.

11 Then Solomon brought Pharaoh’s daughter up from the city of David to the house which he had built for her, for he said, “My wife shall not dwell in the house of David king of Israel, because [f]the places are holy where the ark of the Lord has entered.”

12 Then Solomon offered burnt offerings to the Lord on the altar of the Lord which he had built before the porch; 13 and did so according to the daily rule, offering them up according to the commandment of Moses, for the sabbaths, the new moons and the three annual feasts—the Feast of Unleavened Bread, the Feast of Weeks and the Feast of Booths.

14 Now according to the ordinance of his father David, he appointed the divisions of the priests for their service, and the Levites for their duties of praise and ministering before the priests according to the daily rule, and the gatekeepers by their divisions at every gate; for David the man of God had so commanded. 15 And they did not depart from the commandment of the king to the priests and Levites in any manner or concerning the storehouses.

16 Thus all the work of Solomon was carried out [g]from the day of the foundation of the house of the Lord, and until it was finished. So the house of the Lord was completed.

17 Then Solomon went to Ezion-geber and to Eloth on the seashore in the land of Edom. 18 And Huram by his servants sent him ships and servants who knew the sea; and they went with Solomon’s servants to Ophir, and took from there four hundred and fifty talents of gold and brought them to King Solomon.

 

CH. 10

1 Then Rehoboam went to Shechem, for all Israel had come to Shechem to make him king. When Jeroboam the son of Nebat heard of it (for he was in Egypt where he had fled from the presence of King Solomon), Jeroboam returned from Egypt. So they sent and summoned him. When Jeroboam and all Israel came, they spoke to Rehoboam, saying, “Your father made our yoke hard; now therefore lighten the hard service of your father and his heavy yoke which he put on us, and we will serve you.” He said to them, “Return to me again in three days.” So the people departed.

Then King Rehoboam consulted with the elders who had [a]served his father Solomon while he was still alive, saying, “How do you counsel me to answer this people?” They spoke to him, saying, “If you will be kind to this people and please them and speak good words to them, then they will be your servants forever.” But he forsook the counsel of the elders which they had given him, and consulted with the young men who grew up with him [b]and served him. So he said to them, “What counsel do you give that we may answer this people, who have spoken to me, saying, ‘Lighten the yoke which your father put on us’?” 10 The young men who grew up with him spoke to him, saying, “Thus you shall say to the people who spoke to you, saying, ‘Your father made our yoke heavy, but you make it lighter for us.’ Thus you shall say to them, ‘My little finger is thicker than my father’s loins! 11 Whereas my father loaded you with a heavy yoke, I will add to your yoke; my father disciplined you with whips, but I will discipline you with scorpions.’”

12 So Jeroboam and all the people came to Rehoboam on the third day as the king had [c]directed, saying, “Return to me on the third day.” 13 The king answered them harshly, and King Rehoboam forsook the counsel of the elders. 14 He spoke to them according to the advice of the young men, saying, “[d]My father made your yoke heavy, but I will add to it; my father disciplined you with whips, but I will discipline you with scorpions.” 15 So the king did not listen to the people, for it was a turn of events from God that the Lord might establish His word, which He spoke through Ahijah the Shilonite to Jeroboam the son of Nebat.

16 When all Israel saw that the king did not listen to them the people answered the king, saying,

“What portion do we have in David?
We have no inheritance in the son of Jesse.
Every man to your tents, O Israel;
Now look after your own house, David.”

So all Israel departed to their tents. 17 But as for the sons of Israel who lived in the cities of Judah, Rehoboam reigned over them. 18 Then King Rehoboam sent Hadoram, who was over the forced labor, and the sons of Israel stoned him [e]to death. And King Rehoboam made haste to mount his chariot to flee to Jerusalem. 19 So Israel has been in rebellion against the house of David to this day.

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